When I lost faith, you believed in me
When I stumbled, you were right there
For every act of love you've done, I owe you one

There were hard times, I know I survived
Just because you stayed by my side
With all I have, with all I am I promise you all my life

Whenever the road is too long
Whenever the wind is too strong
Wherever this journey may lead to
I will be there for you..

“I will be there for you”

I will be there for you when you fall,
When your world falls apart.
When nothing is going right, I will be there to make it right.

I will be there for you when your world is right.
When everything is going your way.
Sharing your joy and tribulations like my own.

I will be there for you when you cry.
When they break your heart,
When you’re at your lowest, I will make build you up to your highest again.

I'll be the one you can turn to, a shoulder to cry on, someone to trust.
Giving you advice you might not want to hear but helping when I can.
Listening, never judging always on your side.

Because you are my best friend, the one who changed my world.
With your annoying, obnoxious ways.
The one who brings a smile to my face, when I am down.
Makes me laugh when nothing is funny.

Because I love you, more than you can ever imagine.

Love letter

Write bucket list/100 to do before you die?

100 list of things to do before you die? Yho that's a lot of things to do, i personally don't have a list of things to do before i die. All i have is a list of things that i want to achieve, so far i have achieved a few things. I believe that you must not worry about the things you must do before you die, instead you must worry about the things that you want to achieve in life

HOW HARD IT IS TO FOLLOW INSTRUCTIONS

Honestly,  following instruction is actually very difficult indeed, irrespective of how old or how young you are. 
This is actually a remarkable achievement, and not one that I have mastered yet.  I find that there is a strong link between not following instructions and critical thinking.  It is clear to me that critical thinking and blind obedience are mutually exclusive.
I have never in my life been in a situation where blind obedience was beneficial.    Aah yes,  the malady of  blind obedience … Let us count the ways it hurts us.

Conventional is a good fallback position isn't it

 



Respecting my parent's traditions has helped me a lot in life, i am proud to say that loud Ndiy'Ntombi yomXhosa. I thought my parents were abusing me when they raised me up  differently from other kids.

Now i'm starting to realise that they were preparing a brighter future for me, they did that, and i'm proud!!

MY BIG FAT DREAM

 
If we obey God, it is going to cost other people more than it costs us, and that is where the pain begins. If we are in love with our Lord, obedience does not cost us anything— it is a delight. But to those who do not love Him, our obedience does cost a great deal. If we obey God, it will mean that other people’s plans are upset. They will ridicule us as if to say, “You call this Christianity?” We could prevent the suffering, but not if we are obedient to God. We must let the cost be paid.

YOU CAN'T CHASE TWO RABBITS AT THE SAME TIME

You can't chase two rabbits at the same time, wow that is true we have to learn to accept the positions where God placed us in, We are so impatient wanting to do many things at once of which that is impossible.

You have to await your turn, we are so impatient that some of us even take easy routes to achieve what they want because they don't want to wait for the right time to come.

10 most unexpected consequences of being on line

1. Being a computer addict because of social network
2. Time flies when you are sitting in front of the computer
3. Missing important deadlines because of Facebook and Twitter
4. Chatting with friend from the morning till the mid-night
5. I don't talk about my eyes i need glasses
6. Skipping my breakfast and lunch because of social network
7. Being stalked because of the social network
8. Befriend strangers
9. Being friends with your enemies
10. Accounts being hacked by anonymous people

Rock journalism is people who can't write interviewing people who can't talk for people who can't read

What is rock journalism?

To start with,being a metal journalist is completely different from being an ordinary music journalist. Unlike the music journalist who would review the latest Jazz album to hit stores, over coffee by the fire, the metal journalist would rather like to find themselves in a pit in Wacken or shouting out “Maiden! Maiden!” alongside another fifty thousand metal-heads at a “Matter of Life and Death, Promo Tour” gig.However being a metal journalist is harder than being “just another music journalist

List your top 200 achievements

I haven't reached to achieve top 200 achievement but i'm glad that i have achieved the followings

1. Being a bread winner for my family

2. Being the first graduate in my family

3.Being a motivational speaker to young people

4. Being a woman of God

5. Being a good mother to my baby boy

6. Being an inspiration by changing people's lives

7.Doing my BTech

THE ELEPHANT IN THE ROOM

I CAN'T EXPRESS MY FEELINGS NOW
I'M LIVING HERE I DON'T KNOW HOW
I ALWAYS THOUGHT MY LIFE WAS GREAT
BUT I SAW IT WAS JUST A FAKE.

DON'T HAVE THE FEELING TO GAIN
EVERYTHING I DO ENDS UP IN PAIN.
I TALK TO YOU,I PRETEND TO BE OKAY
BUT YOU DON'T KNOW WHAT I SAY.

I'M BECOMING THE MONSTER I DON'T WANT TO BE
I'M ASKING MYSELF,IS THIS ME?
I FEEL AS IF MY LIFE WAS TAKEN
CAN'T YOU SEE THAT INSIDE I'M BREAKING.

LIKE AN ANGEL WITH WINGS
I CAN'T SEE WHAT MY LIFE BRINGS.
TRY TO FIGURE OUT MY EYES
AT LEAST MINE AREN'T FULL OF LIES.

WHAT MOTIVATES ME

What motivates me is my M – O – T – H – E – R

“M” is for the Million things she gave me,

“O” means Only that she’s growing old,

“T” is for the Tears she shed to save me,

“H” is for her Heart of gold,

“E” is for her Eyes with love-light shining in them,

“R” means Right, and right she’ll always be.

Put them all together, they spell “MOTHER” a word that means the world to me.

My Morning Prayer

Morning Prayer

You are ushering in another day
Untouched and freshly new,
So here I come to ask You God
If You'll renew me too?

Forgive the many errors,
 That I made yesterday,
And let me try again dear God,
To walk closer in Thy way.

But Father, I am well aware
I can't make it on my own.
So take my hand and hold it tight
For I can't walk alone.

It is better to practise a little than to talk a lot

It is better to practice a little than to talk a lot, wow everyone knows that to talk is easy and that is part of freedom that we have
, but to act is a different story. Many people are the victims of that because they were promised things that never happened by people who talk a lot, people who always know everything on earth.
If you talk a lot and don't practise what makes you different from a lier?

EVERYDAY IS A GOOD DAY

Everyday is a good day
Everyday differs from other day
Everyday have it's ups and downs
Everyday have it's special memories to be remebered
But everyday is special.

Everday have it's sad memories sometimes
Everyday you meet some special people that means a lot to you
Everyday you meet some strangers
Everyday you make something different compared to another day
But everday is special.

TRY A CLINCHE

If you dismiss things immediately if they sound like a clinche, you might be missing some good stuff. Clinches are simply “unoriginal ideas” — and that’s fine. There are some good ideas that have been floating around for a while. Try this one on: “Be grateful for what you have.” Yawn, eye-roll, dismiss. Try it. Write down 5 to 7 things you’re glad about every night before you go to sleep for one week. Read all the entries each night.

See what happens. (Hint: If you can’t think of things you’re grateful for, try thinking about the things you don’t want that you don’t have.) It’s best to do right before you turn out the light to go to sleep. Consider what you usually think about as you fall asleep? An assortment of worries or concerns, slights from difficult co-workers, things you need to remember… Negativity and chaos, really. If you purposefully inject the positive into your brain (think the movie The Matrix without the big machine and the pain) then the negative worries and concerns get bumped out. The positive isn’t fluff. It’s real things in your life that you’re actually grateful for, you just tend not to notice. We tend to have a pretty tight focus on what’s wrong with our lives, and ourselves for that matter. With that tight a focus, you’re really missing the big picture. Sometimes our minds need a manual focus adjustment to see the real picture. Try it out and let me know what you notice.

MR MC

Mhlali ngaphambili
Mr sitting before

Ndiyawucaphukela lomkhwa walamantombazana
I hate the attendance of these girls
...
Ayazidla
They eat themselves

Ndinomoya wokuthi
I have a wind to say

Bantu basemhlabeni
People of the soil

Sanukusihlaza
Don't ever green us

Singumgubo wengxowa enye
We are the mealie-meal of the same bag

Ndikhumbula balana
I remember a little story

Xa ndandiphiphiphi
When I was where! where! where!

Ndabona amagatyana amadoda amabini
I saw two Willowvale men

Ayesilwa ngoqhoqhoqho wenkomo
They were fighting by always always always of a cow

Enye indoda yayi rhini-rhini ligazi
One man was grahamstown grahamstown by the blood

Yazi gquma ngebhayi
He covered himself with port elizabeth

Enye indoda yaya kuMantyi
One men go to the basket

uMantyi wathi
Basket said

Aluhlanga lungehlanga...........
It doesn't goes down by down

Live your life to the fullest

Life should be enjoyed to the fullest
Only you can determine how your time should be spent
Be careful of letting others spend it on your behalf
Each moment must be treasured

I believe that life has no meaning besides the meaning you bring to it
This day ought to be lived as if it were your last
The past is over, the future is not guaranteed
It sometimes helps to live as if you were living a second time
and as though you had acted wrongly the first time

Love this moments, and its energy will spread beyond all boundaries
If we take care of the moments, the years will take care of themselves

It is a poor idea to lie to yourself

What makes people to lie to themselves?

The reason why others lie, they don't want to accept who they are
They pretend to be something else of which they are not
Be who you are, be your own brand don't imitate others
Because there's no one else like you, it is only you, who is yourself
You can share the same names and surnames with others but you will alwayz be you

Life is a gift

Today
before you say an unkind word - Think of someone who can't
speak.
Before
you complain about the taste of your food - Think of someone
who has nothing to eat.
Before
you complain about your husband or wife - Think of someone
who's crying out to GOD for a companion.
Today
before you complain about life - Think of someone who died
too early on this earth.
Before
you complain about your children - Think of someone who
desires children but they're barren.
Before
you argue about your dirty house someone didn't clean or
sweep - Think of the people who are living in the streets.

Before
whining about the distance you drive Think of someone who
walks the same distance with their feet.
And when
you are tired and complain about your job - Think of the
unemployed, the disabled, and those who wish they had your
job.
But
before you think of pointing the finger or condemning
another - Remember that not one of us is without sin.
And when
depressing thoughts seem to get you down - Put a smile on
your face and think: you're alive and still
around.

I AM STILL HERE

I am me, I am him
He who started that time
He who said the Words
The words that changed you
Ndim ndiselapha ke ngoko

I am me, I am the man
The man who told you in time
In time to change your destiny
When I told you I Love You
Ndim ndisakuthanda ke nangoku

It is me who changed your plans
They didn't include me
For you didn't know me
And I made you mine for us
Ndim lo ndisenenjongo ke kaloku

It is me that you changed
For my destiny was empty
Without you i wasn't happy
Then you came, now i'm happy
Ndim kanye lo uphuhlisiweyo ngoku

It is you, the you that i love
For you showed me how to love
When empty, you filled me with love
Gave me a son to love
Ndim lo umnike ubomi nosapho

NOT ALL WHO WANDER ARE LOST

Not all who wonder are lost, i just feel so sad when i pass through homeless people and give them nothing.
Seeing them sleeping outside with no blankets, not food, no nothing. Because of their situation we undermine them,laugh, insult them without knowing the reason why they are there.

Those people are not insane they are the same as us, some of them lost their parents and their relatives kicked them out of their homes and they end up sleeping on the streets. Just take time and talk to one or two of them to hear their side of story you will be suprised. When we talk we use to say "why are they begging instead of selling sweets and chips? My question is how are you going to sell those sweets without a single cent to buy the packet of sweets from the shop in order to sell.

How do you step from top of a 100 foot-pole

There are many circumstance and situations that life leads us to – it is ultimately up to us to make what we want out of those trying times. If you really think about some successful people they were not always in the position they’re in now – they weren’t told yes every time they wanted something. They were probably told no more times than we can imagine, the difference between them and those who are still trying to be successful is how they have taken all of the negativity and used it as motivation.

Success isn’t only measured in wealth or material possessions but is determined by each individual. Every decision we make comes with a risk, nothing worth gaining ever comes easy. We all have to get used to the fact that we won’t always succeed the first time, or the second time, or maybe even the third time –failure is apart of living and taking risks is a part of life. During my first year at the university i failed dismally but i told my self that i'm not gonna give up

REVIVE YOUR FAITH

Easter is the time to redeem and revive our faith. Do a self-examination about where God has taken you and what He's done in your life. For most of us, he has give us food to eat, and provided us with the means to raise our children. So, in this period let's revive our faith in God.

We are afraid of the wrong things:

We are afraid of the wrong things I think that is the sickness that we have as humans. But this is true each an everything we do, we do it to please others because we lack self confidence towards ourselves,

We don’t trust ourselves.

We don’t want to try because we are afraid to fail, because we are afraid of doing wrong things.

Sometimes you don’t even know what to wear because you are afraid of what people will say about you. We are afraid to be unique; by doing all these things we don’t know that we put ourselves into prison.  Get out of that prison and be yourself and do what you want to do with out being afraid.

This is me

It is not easy to tell other people about yourself because they judge and that gives them to have a wrong impression about you, but it is better to tell them who you are. Iam the woman of God, I fear God and i would like to be seen as a preacher one day. These are the things that people may know about me.

I can express myself well through writing.
I don’t mind admitting my faults.
I love easily.
I am forgiving
I have a good sense of style.
I have a strong faith in God.
I know He is all I need.
I respect my self and others.

FISH FALLING FROM THE SKY

Fish falling from the sky wow I never heard of that?

Fish have no wings to fly down from the sky

If they can really fly, I will call that a Mana that was received by the Israels

The fish were all alive when they hit the ground?

 So they would have been alive when they were up there flying around the sky.

I can imagine people picking the fishes putting them in the buckets, wheel barrows, trucks, trolleys etc. I can imagine the smell of it wow I don’t even want to thing about it.

I can’t even count the fish braai’s people will by having to celebrate the Mana because they say God does not give you something by hand.  

 I can image people wearing Mermaids costumes celebrating the fish braai.

Women Abuse vs Love

Most people think abuse is just physical attacks such as hitting, punching, kicking, pulling hair, twisting limbs, pinching, slapping, biting, etc.

There are many other type of abusive behavior which hurt just as much or more than physical abuse. Just because an abuser stops hitting his spouse doesn’t mean he has stopped being abusive.

Anger that’s used to control, manipulate, and hold another emotionally hostage is out of control and abusive. It typically starts with name-calling, emotional jabs at a person’s self-worth, painful teasing, public insults. It progresses from there. Eventually the abuser is yelling, grabbing, pushing, slapping, and becoming increasingly aggressive and violent.

Other women are physically abused; they report the matter to police and the man get arrest. The same woman who was beaten to death drop the charges and when you ask the reason for that the woman will say, I love my husband/boyfriend without knowing that abuse can lead to death.

Love is so blind that you can choose to stay in the same house with a beast instead of living him.

WHAT IS THE COLOUR OF THE WIND

For some people the color of wind is
Red ... fiery and hot,
For others the color is
Blue ... placid and calm,

For some people the color of wind is
Red ... fiery and hot,
For others the color is
Blue ... placid and calm,

For some it’s
Yellow... caring but cautious,
For others it's
Orange ... rich and fruitful,
For some the color is
Lavender... gentle and kind,

For others it's
Purple... sacrificing and giving,
For some it's
White and blowing

But for me the color is untouchable and undefined

For some it’s
Yellow... caring but cautious,
For others it's
Orange ... rich and fruitful,
For some the color is
Lavender... gentle and kind,

For others it's
Purple... sacrificing and giving,
For some it's
White and blowing

But for me the color is untouchable and undefined

Hardships of being a degree student

The changes of being a degree student can be exciting but also challenging and are an intrinsic part of the attraction of going to university.  However they can contribute to feelings of anxiety.

Studying for a degree is personally and intellectually demanding.  Some people can tolerate a lot of stress, some can’t.  Becoming more aware of your physical and emotional reactions to stress and the effects of what you eat and drink in your energy levels and mood will help gain greater control over your life – taking more responsibility is one of the best ways to successfully manage stress.

Our state of mind is constantly changing and responding to either positive or negative influences in our lives and the challenging and changing situations at university can contribute to this.

One view is that our mental health difficulties can be seen as a ‘spectrum’ (or continuum). Most of the time, if we are lucky, positive factors will be holding us near to the “well” end of the mental health spectrum.  Sometimes, though, the negative factors start shifting us along towards the “not so well” end of the spectrum.  If we are aware of this and seek help in time we can shift ourselves back.

IF I WERE A BOSS

Being a Boss is not an easy job.

Being a good Boss is even more difficult.

Being a Boss gives the privilege and the responsibility of managing others.

I would respect my employees so that they can respect me too.

I will always come early to the office to set an example.

I will reward all my employees who did very well; I will also spend my time with them when I’m not busy.

I will always let them to speak to me when they have problems.

When I’m not in the office I will call them to find out that things are going well in the office.

I will set the rules and if someone does not respect that he/she will get fired.

Respect yourself

Have confidence in yourself,confident people also tend to respect themselves. If you lack confidence it is time you start trusting in yourself and your abilities. Don’t’ allow other people to let you down.

Treat others with respect and by doing so you will develop respect for yourself. As you treat others respectfully you will also be treated respectfully. Those who treat others with a lack of respect often lack respect for themselves. Treat others with respect regardless of how they treat you, and realize that you are helping to teach them self-respect while building respect for yourself at the same time.

Surround yourself with positive people, who respect themselves and others, who are an encouragement in your life. Who tells you when you are wrong?

By being in the presence of those who are positive and confident, you will find yourself becoming infused with their enthusiasm, self-respect and positive energy. It is much healthier than being around those who are constantly putting themselves and others down.

Choose your friends wisely. Pick quality over quantity. People often like to have many friends because it makes them feel popular and important, but having a few friends of good character is worth more than a large circle of friends and superficial popularity. If your friends bring you down or disrespect you in any way, it may be time to re-evaluate your friendship. Don’t allow your friends to make you do things that you don’t want to do.

Two people come out of a building into a story

There was a couple who went to old mutual building in Joburg, the wife said to her husband you can go up alone my love I will wait for you down stairs I’m very scared of lifts. The husband took a lift from ground floor to 21^st floor. While he was inside the lift on his way back to the ground floor he felt that something can go wrong and then he get out of the lift and took the stairs. The wife heard a commotion as if the building was falling down, and that was the lift her husband supposed to be in, the wife closed her eyes and prayed for her husband.

Suddenly the lift opened the people inside it were all dead, the wife cried and the husband came down from the stairs and the wife said I thank God for you my love. The paramedics and the news reporters rushed to the scene, the owner of the company was interviewed and he, apologized for what happened and said all those who lost their family members will receive one million rand each.

The wife got angry and said to her husband why did you get out of that lift stupid man you see now that we will remain poor the rest of our lives.

You thought that you were clever but you are a stupid.

The power of a praying wife

• Prayer is your declaration of Dependence. When you don’t pray it’s your declaration of independence.

• Prayer works like glue in a marriage. Prayer is like a window to the heart of your spouse. We rarely stay angry at someone when we listen in on their conversations with God. People reveal more about themselves in prayer than any other form of communication. They drop the excuses and masks.

They open up and are vulnerable before God. Because prayer is intimacy with God, a natural by-product of praying together is intimacy with each other.

• Pray for your husband—not so much for your sake but for his that he won’t miss the blessing God has for him.

• WIVES: Pray over your husband’s clothes, that God will protect him physically, mentally, and spiritually —protecting his heart, so it will be fully yielded to God’s ways of doing things.

• Pray for your marriage as you have never prayed before. Ask God to increase your affection toward your husband and to increase your husband’s affection toward you. Thank God for every good quality your husband has and for every sweet memory you have shared. Plead with God to deliver you from any unforgiveness or bitterness you still hold in your heart. Allow God to give you beauty for ashes. Invite Him to become the center of your life and the Lord of your marriage.

• Never underestimate the power of praying together. God is really is in the business of answering prayer. He can break through our stubborn spirits if we give Him the opportunity. I know it’s hard to invite Him in when a quarrel is in process, but if we will do it, He will surprise us with joy and forgiveness.

Design a PR

Design a PR

The right reputation is everything. Your image is always at work even when you not in the public eye. Public relations strategists have always known how to manage that image. We place you in front of the right audience with the right message. Public Relations Practitioners are committed in creating functional design that suits the needs of our clients.

What we design is a call to action with the mind to identify what we should create and produce stunning results that are noticed by the public.

Our aim when we have to brand an individual we take a look at all the aspects from pricing, costing, distribution and presentation.  We make sure that we are acquainted with your brand and work behind the story.  To build a brand we have to be passionate about your story and tell the remarkable story.

We’re big believer in the power of social media, that’s why we’re constantly on the lookout for opportunities to get you noticed.   We support the power of social media.

We make sure that your brand is visible in front of web networks such as blogs, tweeters; we also help you set up your social media outlets for better results and often create videos and ads to help promote your brand.

With God things are possible

With God all things are possible

I am a mother, a wife and a student, when I look at the past I get emotional because it’s been a hard road for me with so many challenges. I had to look for a job because there was no income at home, and I always have a dream of going to tertiary. I got a job and pay my fees, now I have my own home, I worked so hard to get where I am.

I’m really blessed and thankful to God for my blessing and I don’t believe that he brought me this far. To those who are currently depressed because of relationship problems, a marriage is falling apart or can’t find a job. Don’t give up God will provide for all your needs.

The car you want, that house you have been waiting for is on the way, as it is said in the bible there’s a time for everything. Pray until something happens, cry before the Lord because through tears there’s a breakthrough. Appreciate the time and season that you are in, resolve to be patient and believe in your future and the Lord will make it happen in his time.

I AM

I AM

I am a woman of many talents I am ambitious, self-confident ,obedient, a writer, a singer, an actress, a motivational speaker , a mother and a wife.

All I can say is I am a strong woman. I am a hard worker; enjoy being part of a team. I believe that quality takes time and dealing with obstacles head on. I am a reliable being and have good communication Skills.  I am inpatient in getting things done.

I am always willing to learn. I am in need of experience in any field where my skills will apply. I am a student at Cape Peninsula University of Technology at Cape Town Campus.  I am currently doing my B Tech this year in Public Relations Management.

These are three things that makes me who I am

Intelligence
I believe everyone is blessed with some form of intelligence-whether it's traditional, leadership, etc

Honesty
It's sometimes easier to lie than it is to be honest about everything. Honesty is the number one thing I look for in a woman. It's endearing, and it makes it easier for me to trust myself.

Ambition
There are many forms of ambition – I work hard to achieve what I want but so does a Drive and hard work are admirable...and two things I wish I could do better.